Let’s start building friendships that will last a lifetime.
You’re packed and ready to go. Heading off to university is one of the most exciting times of your life, where you’ll meet people and build friendships that last a lifetime. It’s completely normal to feel nervous about making friends at uni — most people feel exactly the same.
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How to make friends at university
Starting university can feel daunting, but you’re not alone. These 11 tips will help you take that first step towards building meaningful friendships.
1. Join Facebook groups
One of the easiest ways to start making friends is by joining Facebook groups. Search for your university plus “freshers” and you’ll find plenty of groups where students share events and connect before moving in.
Take a look at the Vita Student Facebook page to see friendships forming across our buildings.
2. Sign up to societies
Societies are one of the best ways to meet like-minded people. From sports to creative clubs, there’s something for everyone — and freshers’ fairs are the perfect place to explore.
Try a few taster sessions to meet new people and discover new interests.
Discover the five people you need to meet during freshers’ week
3. Help your flatmates move in
First impressions matter. Helping your flatmates move in is an easy way to break the ice and start conversations naturally.
4. Keep your door open
If you’re feeling social, keeping your door open can signal that you’re open to chatting. It’s a simple but effective way to invite interaction.
5. Visit your neighbours
Don’t be afraid to knock on doors and introduce yourself. Everyone is in the same position, and this is one of the easiest ways to build connections early on.
6. Spend time in communal spaces
Common areas are designed for meeting people. Start conversations in shared spaces, lectures, or study areas — you already have something in common.
7. Sit next to someone in lectures
It might feel awkward at first, but sitting next to someone and introducing yourself is one of the simplest ways to make a connection.
8. Invite people to do things
If you meet someone you like, follow up. Ask them to grab coffee, lunch, or go out — most people will appreciate you making the first move.
9. Organise a study group
Study groups are a great way to strengthen friendships while staying productive.
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10. Be yourself
This is the most important tip. Be authentic and you’ll naturally find people who share your interests and values.
How to make friends at uni when living at home
Even if you’re living at home, you can still build strong friendships. Make the effort to connect in lectures, join societies, and attend events.
Common questions about making friends at uni
Is it normal to have no friends at uni?
Yes — many students feel this way at first. It doesn’t make you abnormal, and things usually improve as you settle in.
Why is it hard to make friends at university?
You’re in a completely new environment, often living away from home for the first time. It’s natural to feel unsure initially.
How do shy people make friends?
Start small — sit next to someone, say hello, and build confidence gradually.
Is it hard to find friends at university?
Not at all. With so many people around you, opportunities to connect are everywhere.
How to make friends at uni: recap
Here are our top tips:
- Join Facebook groups
- Sign up to societies
- Help your flatmates move in
- Keep your door open
- Visit your neighbours
- Spend time in communal spaces
- Start conversations
- Sit next to someone in lectures
- Invite people to do things
- Organise a study group
- Be yourself
If you found this helpful, explore more tips on the Vita Student blog or find your perfect student accommodation.
